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Divorce Options

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Recommended Reading


Couples and Family Therapy

The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Workby John Gottman, Ph.D

Passionate Marriageby David Schnarch, Ph.D

Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic + the Domesticby Ester Perel

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithfulby Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD | Emily Brown, LCSW, a seasoned psychotherapist in Arlington Virginia, has developed a client self-assessment tool. This can be used to make some sense out of an affair experience.


The Divorce Remedyby M. Weiner-Davis

In or Out: Treating The Mixed Agenda Couple | by Psychotherapy Networker, (November-December 2001), pp. 45-50. Also available at

Separation and Divorce

Divorce: A Problem to Be Solved, Not a Battle to Be Foughtby Karen Fagerstrom, Milton Kalish, A. Rodney Nurse, Nancy J Ross, Peggy Thompson, Diana A Wilde, and Thomas W. Wolfrum

He’s History, You’re Not: Surviving Divorce After 40 | by Erica Manfred and Tina Tessina Ph.D.

Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends, 3rd Edition (Rebuilding Books; for Divorce and Beyond) | by Bruce Fisher and Robert Alberti

Surviving Separation and Divorce | by Loriann Hoff Oberlin

The Divorce Organizer and Planner | by Brette Sember

Children and Divorce

The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict After a Difficult Divorce | by Elizabeth Thayer and Jeffrey Zimmerman

The Good Divorce | by Constance Ahrons, Ph.D

Divorce Is Not the End of the World: Zoe’s And Evan’s Coping Guide for Kids | by Zoe Stern, Evan Stern, and Ellen Sue Stern

What Should We Tell The Children?  A Parents’ Guide for Talking About Separation and Divorce | by Joan Kelly

Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way | by M. Gary Neuman

Mom’s House, Dad’s House: Making two homes for your child | by Isolina Ricci Ph.D.

The Truth About Children and Divorce: Dealing with the Emotions So You and Your Children Can Thrive | by Robert E. Emery Ph.D.

Divorce and Child Custody A Judge’s Guide to Divorce: Uncommon Advice from the Bench | by Roderic Duncan

Parenting from the Inside Out | by Daniel Siegel and Mary Hartzell

Useful Links | South Bay Collaborative Divorce Practitioners | Greater Los Angeles Collaborative Divorce Practitioners | Statewide Collaborative Divorce Practioners | International Collaborative Divorce Practitioners